Free practices

Free practices you can start tonight.

Guided audio from Melanie, for the two of you and for yourself. No prep, no pressure, and no right way to do it.

Start with the Reset. Or browse every free practice ↓

Start here · For couples

Don’t read another relationship guide. Press play.

Give me 10 minutes with the two of you. The 10-Minute Relationship Reset is a guided couples practice designed to interrupt stress and disconnection and help you practice being teammates, best friends, and lovers again.

Guided audio

Quick-reference practice guide

The strongest relationships aren’t the ones that never disconnect. They’re the ones that know what to do when they do.

For couples · Free audio ritual

Set the mood. Hit play.

The Free Connection Practice is a guided audio ritual for the two of you. Light a candle, grab your Bluetooth speaker or that cozy blanket, then simply press play and let yourself be guided.

Guided audio

Set your space, press play, have fun

This is how we Bonk Better: by choosing connection, pleasure, and intimacy that feels alive.

For you

Practices for your own body

Short guided meditations to come home to yourself. Add your name and email, and your audio will be waiting in your inbox. There’s absolutely no way to do this wrong.

For vulva owners

Sensual Body Meditation

A short, sweet visualization to connect with your sexual organs and feel warm, vibrant energy rise as you reconnect to your pleasure and your power.

For everyone

Speaking Love to Yourself

A 20-minute meditation to notice how you speak to yourself, and to practice speaking with compassion and love instead. Do it anywhere, anytime.

For testicle owners

Empowering Testicle Massage

A guided self-care practice to stay connected to your body, your strength, and your pleasure.

The monthly Love Note

A little love in your inbox

Add your name to my list to experience deeper love, and receive a sexy playlist right away.

When you want more than one good night

Keep choosing each other.

The Bonk Better Relationship Club is a simple monthly rhythm of guided date nights, meaningful conversations, and playful practices that keep you connected through the beautiful chaos of real life.

Want to Bonk Better?

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Sacred meets science.
Pleasure meets power.