Private Couples Coaching

Somatic support for deep love, soulful intimacy, and sex that actually gets better over time.

From an intimacy tune-up to a full relationship remodel, my tiered programs are designed to meet you exactly where you are—and guide you into the love story you’re meant to be living.

Whether you’re craving deeper emotional connection, longing to reignite your sex life, or working to rebuild after rupture, I walk beside you with equal parts compassion, structure, and turn-on. Together, we’ll create a sanctuary for healing, growth, and wild new possibilities.

All coaching packages include Bonk Better’s Love + Libido in Flow Training—a transformative blend of soulful communication, emotional intelligence, and sexual rediscovery. This is where science meets the sacred: trauma-informed tools, nervous system attunement, and erotic embodiment practices grounded in both modern neuroscience and ancient wisdom.

You’ll learn how to:
✨ Speak and listen from the heart
✨ Regulate your nervous system in connection
✨ Reignite eros with confidence and consent
✨ Create sustainable passion that deepens over time

Real tools. Real love. Real transformation.
This is your foundation for a relationship that’s not just surviving—but thriving.

Every Private Coaching Package Includes:

💞 Customized Playwork – Somatic and sensual practices tailored to your unique relationship
📝 Session Notes – Personalized insights to support embodiment and track your evolution
🤲 Support Between Sessions – Ongoing voice/text access for integration, check-ins, or sticky moments
🔥 Sacred, Safe Space – Trauma-informed, pleasure-centered coaching where both of you are fully honored

Sessions are 90 minutes and held over Zoom. Behind the scenes, I invest an additional 3–4 hours each week creating your custom resources, notes, and practices. We meet 3 times per month, with one week reserved for rest and integration—so your nervous systems can actually receive the change.

📖 Choose Your Path:

RECONNECT | 3 Months – $3,250
Foundational Healing & Intimacy Reset
Ideal for couples wanting to reestablish emotional safety, build trust, and reawaken intimacy. Includes 9 sessions and grounding somatic tools to rebuild your connection from the inside out.

REIGNITE | 6 Months – $5,500 ⭐ Most Popular
Deep Transformation & Custom Playwork
This is where transformation becomes embodied. With 18 sessions, couples have the time, repetition, and support needed for nervous system rewiring, erotic confidence, and sustainable pleasure. Includes bespoke “Playwork”, advanced erotic practices, and integration support.

REBUILD | 12 Months – from $10,000
Erotic Intimacy Design, Life Integration & Partner Sessions
For couples navigating betrayal, long-term disconnection, or major life transitions. This is a total relationship transformation with guided support, partner-specific sessions, and a full relational redesign including parts work and re-parenting the inner child.

Flexible payment plans available upon request.

💡 A Juicy Perspective on Investment:

We spend an average of:
☕ $300/month on coffee & takeout
📱 $250/month on phones & streaming
🚗 $1,200/month on car payments
💍 $33,000 on the average U.S. wedding

But how often do we invest in the very thing that holds it all together—our relationship?

This is your invitation to prioritize the love, pleasure, and partnership that will sustain you for years to come.

This isn’t just couples coaching—it’s an awakening. It’s a reimagining. It’s your next chapter.