Writing a love letter to your sexy bits
In a world quick to judge, it’s essential to honor the parts of ourselves that often face the most scrutiny. Our genitalia, often shamed and judged, hold significant power in shaping our identities and experiences - they also hold their own trauma. By celebrating your sacred pleasure center, embracing it all with love and acceptance, we can begin to release the weight of judgment and nurture our true magic, epic pleasure and sacred orgasm.
This is your invitation to put pen to paper recognizing your beauty, your power, while acknowledging your stories, honoring the mishaps and understanding that every aspect of who we are is worthy of compassion.
Step 1: Name your member
Naming your vulva, penis, or any other part of your body is a way to reclaim the words that define you! The way you speak internally manifests your outer experiences so try on a name that inspires your pleasure, that feels sexy and that lights you up on the inside.
Get a little bold, a little playful, and dive into the beauty of embracing these parts of us with confidence.
For me, reclaiming pussy felt empowering, rebellious even! She is strong, she is a source of inspiration, she is a portal to the heavens and I love that pussy encompasses my entire pleasure center…and despite the collective repression that’s existed around the vulva for centuries - she is NOT weak!!! She is a force!!!
The very same is true for the male’s counterpart light saber of love!!!
Whether you’re giggling, blushing, feeling a knot in your stomach or just feeling curious, this is your chance to make those names your own. It’s sexy, it’s empowering, and it’s yours.
PUSSY
〰️
COCK
〰️
YONI
〰️
LINGHAM
〰️
VULVA
〰️
WEINER
〰️
COOCH
〰️
PECKER
〰️
PEACH
〰️
MAN MEAT
〰️
PLEASURE BITS
〰️
FRONT HOLE
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PUSSY 〰️ COCK 〰️ YONI 〰️ LINGHAM 〰️ VULVA 〰️ WEINER 〰️ COOCH 〰️ PECKER 〰️ PEACH 〰️ MAN MEAT 〰️ PLEASURE BITS 〰️ FRONT HOLE 〰️
Step 2: Create a ritual space to pen your letter
Creating a ritual space sends a signal to your brain that something special is on it’s way! Take a few moments to create a sacred environment for this quick act of devotion.
Gather your favorite pens, pencils, markers, glitter glue, or device. Also, any sacred items you want present. Awaken your senses by lighting a candle or burning incense, play music that turns you on, etc.
On the go, and want to dive into ! Breath in deeply, on the exhale create an energetic bubble of light to hold you while you write a juicy note to your juicy bits. Call in any aspect of nature, unicorns, rainbows, sparkles!!
Writing a letter to my pussy! I grabbed my favorite markers, a quartz crystal and lit a manifestation candle! SO YUMMY!
Step 3: Reflection
Reflect on past memories: happy moments, embarrassing scenes, powerful experiences of pleasure, times of deep longing, joyful recollections of play, dropping into nostalgia, honoring both a time of disconnection and reconnection.
Embracing these memories, positive and negative, celebrates the richness, the vibrancy of our lives.
Step 4: Have fun!
Ya’ll this is celebratory, a fun practice. You can’t mess it up so enjoy yourself, let yourself play and your pleasure bits guide the way.
Use the letter to reflect, manifest, celebrate, and set the intentions for your future pleasure!!
